Went to venue last night with O. Things did not go well with M, as the vibe was totally off and the venue didn't lend itself to building much attraction through conversation. My club game is still very weak due to the fact I may not necessarily be able to subcommunicate the right things through body language. And, of course, I don't project my voice well, so when they can't hear me, that hurts alot, too. Found out after a tough night that I have a huge sticking point (self-evident, really): ATTRACTION. I literally cannot flip the attraction switches, or if I can, I can't flip very many of them. Another big one is HOOKING the sets. In l0uder venues, especially, I have a very difficult time hooking multiple sets. 1 will respond, but the others will usually lose interest due to not being able to hear me. I need to learn to project my voice.
On a pleasant note, I think that I can semi-reliably attract 4-5s! Not much progress, but still better than the first time I went out.
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